Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Relationships Matter

My dear friend so spoke the wise angels who had converged together at my place for the first time
Let us speak about the importance of relationships as human lead their lives beyond their prime
When man is full of vitality and his energy is solely focused on advancing his cause of earning a dime
He may unconsciously commit a folly in avoiding human company and blame it on the lack of time

Every man has the power to choose the way he consciously spends his time on a daily basis
Some prefer to stay solitary lives and avoid interacting with the world without examining their beliefs
Some prefer to stay single when their social interactions seems to have resulted in moments of grief
Some prefer to make efforts to influence the world and either persist or drop-out when they turn weak

Every man has the potential opportunity to develop diverse nature of relationships with common folk
He can have a common cause that brings him together or a common interest that helps initiate a talk
He may hold some grudges with those who have divergent views on the way world needs to operate
He may never acknowledge the good qualities in them since he refuses to examine his mental state

He may fluctuate in displaying extreme emotions that others around him may never be able to relate
He may believe others are unfair and need to control their urges and no longer wildly vacillate
He may turn judgmental about people or their actions that even possibly result in relationships of hate
He may not turn inwards trying to examine his values and beliefs that may eventually impact his fate

He may justify all his actions of not forming relations a result of his trying experiences in the world
He may avoid social interactions remembering only sour experiences handed out by destiny’s card
He may unconsciously not understand the implications of his actions or inactions on his own brethren
He may find it difficult to digest their emotional outburst when it comes for reason that he can’t fathom


As he grows older he turns inwards but his needs may necessitate him to look for external support
If he has never have spent time relating with people in better times he can ill afford to visit their court
If when he was younger and could develop a stronger foundation he decided to weaken his fort
He would need to consider himself lucky should in times of need others refuse to play spoil sport

One needs to remember that relationships develop over time and requires one to invest his effort
One needs to render help without having any expectations that in times of need he will get support
One needs to demonstrate love and affection to people who in various forms he gets to interact
One needs to be equally detached so as to not lose one’s sleep when desires conflicts with fact!

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